February 14th, 2010 | by Sydney Molare |

Love…we LOVE being “in love” so here’s a Happy Valentine’s Day to all the lovers out there.
It funny how the majority of the time, I write in silence EXCEPT when it time to write a hot sex scene. Then, I turn to music for my inspiration because I faced the fact a long time ago, music changes my mental status.
I DO get hot and bothered reading my erotic writings and hearing music in the background.
Now when I was writing “You’ve Got Male” where our heroine has just purchased a mail-order groom…honestly, I wanted to hear something gritty, hard, kickass different. I need an aggressive song, one that pushed me over the edge…and I found it in Eminem’s Lose Yourself ( One Chance). From the first thumping beat, I could feel Dina’s new husband, Dubois, taking shape, growing, becoming her man to lose herself in…
For “Fiending for It”, my couples Sexolympics, I know how couples can become stale, lose that “umph” they had at the beginning so I was quick to turn to songs that made me remember how GREAT it was to be happily married. My top choice was my girl, Celine Dion’s Have You Ever Been in Love?. I have to smile whenever I hear it and I’m smiling now as I’m writing and listening to it for the thousandth time…and here is another one that just takes me there… Jennifer Hudson’s Giving Myself Over to You
“Becoming One”…a polyandrist needing to take three husbands down to one? You already know my heroine was hot, smoking and way too much to handle. I needed to pull out the bad girl song for this bad chick. LOL. Set in Nawlings, Mardi Gras and all those things that “push the envelope”, Patti LaBelle crooning her Lady Marmalade.
Voulez vous coucher avec moi ce soir… anyone? Have a GREAT one!
Syd
























































































